Ok everyone, its sorted.
Many thanks to D'son Major for your help in the first instance sorting out my linking mistakes.
And to mrmagool144 Lieutenant Colonel I am indebted to for help given to me in analysing the structure of my site.
Two problems existed.
(1) I used a caps in one of my page names, (stupid boy)
(2) And this seems to have been the main problem, when saving a page after making changes, and before publishing I would click (save) then publish,
I should have clicked (save page as) this was the fix.
To judavvforum Major Thanks for being interested in my plight, this reply may help other users that may have the same problem in the future.
Good Luck to Everyone moses007.