I'm sorry, but I am just totally lost. I've never tried to construct anything like this before, have never used FTP. So I don't know exactly what you are referring to when you say "look for wordpress."
I am not sure I am even doing the right things at all. My compu-comprehension is about zero, and everyone else seems like profesionals.
Pretend that I am a child who knows absolutely nothing, and start from there. I don't think I'll get FTP otherwise. I seems extremely complicated to me.
I appreciate your help and interest, even though I am not a very apt pupil.

Alan