Thread: Shockwave flash box-different look?

Hi Guys!
I have demos on my site that I loaded in Flash. I wanted to add another, but the box looks different. Controls are different etc. This is what I want the boxes to look like:
http://www.memoriesdvds.com/weddingdvddemos.html

But I can't seem to get there....I get an ugly white bar with a yellow logo on the right side. I'm using the "F" icon, which I'm sure I used before.
What am I doing wrong? Or has it changed? Or does it get right after publishing?
Thanks!
Debi

P.S. re: previous post:
I have tried the obvious different choices in the drop down. Tried using the exact options I used on the others, nothing changed the look of the box.
Debi