Re: Help...reunion site...noindex....please....lost!
To back up on what Beth says above.. Sites will link to you without your say-so, directories, search engines, WILL pick you up somehow, and once one has you, others will follow... So as Beth says, unless you put a 'nofollow' on every page, you are quite likely to get indexed at some point.
I must agree with Beth though that Password protecting your site after visitors come to your index page, is probably going to be your best bet.
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