THanks for the quick replies...
Are you saying that what I saved the page as must be the same name as what is written e.g. on index?
Yes .... on a page that you make, you choose the name, other than your very first page which must be called index, saved as index, published as index and recalled via the internet when you type in your domain name. All the rest of the pages can be named by your choice. But ... if you call it grapes, it must be saved as grapes, must be published as grapes and then is recalled via the internet like this http://www.colourtherapyspa.com/grapes.html
e.g. I have a page called healing chakra jewelry listed as a menu item on indes (but I haven't worked with the page properties boxes much yet..so it isn't listed as a title (should it be there?) When I want to open the BV page it is called chakra jewelry. In the link box on index page I wrote
http://colourtherapyspa.com/jewelry.html The page properties box is used for different things. The title you see in there, you can type the title of your page, call it anything you want, it is totally different from what you are saving, publishing and recalling your page by .... It is the title you will see appear when you are viewing the page, you will notice this on the bottom of your computer screen, that will be where your title shows up, not the internet address that you will notice at the top of your computer monitor...
Please don't laugh at me, but is
this what is all supposed to be the same?
Not laughing, (chuckling though, lol) Things that need to be the same ... the name by which you saved your .bvp file, (that is the file that is made when you make a page in the web builder), you must publish this as the exact name and you retrieve it via the exact name, except, to retireve it you must use the .html - you do not use this when you make and save or publish you page, voda does this for you ... but to retrieve it or link it you must ...
Should all say "healing chakra jewelry?" (I can do that!

"Healing chakra jewelry" everywhere....but in the link box it is my understanding that I have to put an underline between the words- I wouldn't do that on customer-visible pages, would I? )
You can choose to use the _ or not ... you can write your words like this .... chakra_jewelry or chakrajewelry .... not much difference, your choice ... just no spaces or capital letters .... No, the title of your pages might be all different, for instance if you have jewellry selections, that page could be titled jewellry selections, if your page is about relaxing techniques for spas, title that page as such ... this title part is the part on your page properties only, not what you call and save and publish as your page remember...
And aha, I do see my IP address and "public html" when I click to publish my page. Thanks for pointing that out to me! The only time I've added .html is in the link page after the page name.
yes this is when you add the .html when you are typing in the link that you are inserting to the button, navigation bar or even an image that you are linking to ......
I haven't figured out what 'target" and "bookmark" are there on link page for yet...am I supposed to put something in those fields?
Target .... leave this empty if you are linking everything to your site ... if you for instance were sending the viewers to someone elses site via a link from your site, you might consider using _blank, this will then open another page on their computer and when they close that page, your site is still on their computer - in technical terms - it opens another window ...
Merci...
Leeza