Sociopath Test | Sociopath Definition

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Many people have come up with a great business idea only to realize that they don’t have all of the skills or experience necessary to turn their idea into a thriving company. Having the right partners is essential to getting many companies off the ground, but finding the right people has always been a huge challenge for most entrepreneurs.

Doing business with a sociopath for example can cost you dearly and is a key consideration that you need to make when choosing your business partners.

Are you or someone you know a Sociopath? Take our sociopath test and find out the sociopath definition and sociopath traits.

Are You Doing Business With a Sociopath?

Sociopathy is a complex personality disorder. Sociopaths exhibit a wide variety of maladaptive behavior which makes the condition difficult to diagnose. Sociopathy is not one trait; it is a syndrome—a cluster of related symptoms.

Sociopath Test

The following questionnaire is based on research and experiences of socialised sociopaths.  For each trait, decide if it applies to the person you suspect may be a socialised sociopath, fully (2 points), partially (1 point) or not at all (0 points).

1) Do they have problems sustaining stable relationships, personally and in business?

2) Do they frequently manipulate others to achieve selfish goals, with no consideration of the effects on those manipulated?

3) Are they cavalier about the truth, and capable of telling lies to your face?

4) Do they have an air of self-importance, regardless of their true standing in society?

5) Have they no apparent sense of remorse, shame or guilt?

6) Is their charm superficial, and capable of being switched on to suit immediate ends?

7) Are they easily bored and demand constant stimulation?

8) Are their displays of human emotion unconvincing?

9) Do they enjoy taking risks, and acting on reckless impulse?

10) Are they quick to blame others for their mistakes?

11) As teenagers, did they resent authority, play truant and/or steal?

12) Do they have no qualms about sponging off others?

13) Are they quick to lose their temper?

14) Are they sexually promiscuous?

15) Do they have a belligerent, bullying manner?

16) Are they unrealistic about their long-term aims?

17) Do they lack any ability to empathise with others?

18) Would you regard them as essentially irresponsible?

A score of 25 or above suggests strong psychopathic tendencies.  This does not mean the person is a potential mass-murderer: socialised psychopaths are not mad, nor do they have to resort to violence.  Even so, a close professional or emotional relationship with a socialised psychopath is likely to prove a damaging experience.
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Sociopath Definition

Glib and superficial

Sociopaths are often witty and articulate. They can be amusing and entertaining conversationalists, ready with a quick and clever comeback, and can tell unlikely but convincing stories that cast themselves in a good light. They can be very effective in presenting themselves well and are often very likable and charming.

Typically, Sociopaths attempt to appear experts in sociology, psychiatry, medicine, psychology, philosophy, poetry, literature, art or law. A signpost to this trait is often a smooth lack of concern at being found out that they are not.

Egocentric and grandiose

Sociopaths have a narcissistic and grossly inflated view of their self-worth and importance, a truly astounding egocentricity and sense of entitlement. They see themselves as the center of the universe, as superior beings who are justified in living according to their own rules.

Sociopaths are seldom embarrassed about their legal, financial or personal problems. Rather, they see them as temporary setbacks, the results of bad luck, unfaithful friends or an unfair and incompetent system.

Sociopaths feel that their abilities will enable them to become anything they want to be. Given the right circumstances—opportunity, luck, willing victims—their grandiosity can pay off spectacularly. For example, the psychopathic entrepreneur “thinks big,” but it’s usually with someone else’s money.

Lack of remorse or guilt

Sociopaths show a stunning lack of concern for the devastating effects their actions have on others. Often they are completely forthright about the matter, calmly stating that they have no sense of guilt, are not sorry for the pain and destruction they have caused, and that there is no reason for them to be concerned.

Sociopaths’ lack of remorse or guilt is associated with a remarkable ability to rationalize their behavior and to shrug off personal responsibility for actions that cause shock and disappointment to family, friends, associates and others who have played by the rules. Usually they have handy excuses for their behavior, and in some cases they deny that it happened at all.

Lack of empathy

The feelings of other people are of no concern to Sociopaths. Sociopaths view people as little more than objects to be used for their own gratification. The weak and the vulnerable—whom they mock, rather than pity—are favorite targets.

Sociopaths display a general lack of empathy. They are indifferent to the rights and suffering of family members and strangers alike. If they do maintain ties with their spouses or children it is only because they see their family members as possessions, much like their stereos or automobiles.

Because of their inability to appreciate the feelings of others, some Sociopaths are capable of behavior that normal people find not only horrific but baffling. For example, they can torture and mutilate their victims with about the same sense of concern that we feel when we carve a turkey for Thanksgiving dinner.

However, except in movies and books, very few Sociopaths commit crimes of this sort. Their callousness typically emerges in less dramatic, though still devastating, ways: parasitically bleeding other people of their possessions, savings and dignity; aggressively doing and taking what they want; shamefully neglecting the physical and emotional welfare of their families; engaging in an unending series of casual, impersonal and trivial sexual relationships; and so forth.

Deceitful and manipulative

Lying, deceiving and manipulation are natural talents for Sociopaths. Given their glibness and the facility with which they lie, it is not surprising that Sociopaths successfully cheat, bilk, defraud, con and manipulate people and have not the slightest compunction about doing so. They are often forthright in describing themselves as con men, hustlers or fraud artists. Their statements often reveal their belief that the world is made up of “givers and takers,” predators and prey, and that it would be very foolish not to exploit the weaknesses of others.

Some of their operations are elaborate and well thought out, whereas others are quite simple: stringing along several women at the same time, or convincing family members and friends that money is needed “to bail me out of a jam.” Whatever the scheme, it is carried off in a cool, self-assured, brazen manner.

Shallow emotions

Sociopaths seem to suffer a kind of emotional poverty that limits the range and depth of their feelings. While at times they appear cold and unemotional, they are prone to dramatic, shallow and short-lived displays of feeling. Careful observers are left with the impression that they are play-acting and that little is going on below the surface.

Laboratory experiments using biomedical recorders have shown that Sociopaths lack the physiological responses normally associated with fear. The significance of this finding is that, for most people, the fear produced by threats of pain or punishment is an unpleasant emotion and a powerful motivator of behavior. Not so with Sociopaths; they merrily plunge on, perhaps knowing what might happen but not really caring.

Impulsive

Sociopaths are unlikely to spend much time weighing the pros and cons of a course of action or considering the possible consequences. “I did it because I felt like it,” is a common response.

More than displays of temper, impulsive acts often result from an aim that plays a central role in most of the psychopath’s behavior: to achieve immediate satisfaction, pleasure or relief. So, family members, employers and co-workers typically find themselves standing around asking themselves what happened—jobs are quit, relationships broken off, plans changed, houses ransacked, people hurt, often for what appears to be little more than a whim.

Sociopaths tend to live day-to-day and to change their plans frequently. They give little serious thought to the future and worry about it even less.

Poor behavior controls

In Sociopaths, inhibitory controls are weak, and the slightest provocation is sufficient to overcome them. As a result, Sociopaths are short-tempered or hot-headed and tend to respond to frustration, failure, discipline and criticism with sudden violence, threats and verbal abuse. They take offense easily and become angry and aggressive over trivialities, and often in a context that appears inappropriate to others. But their outbursts, extreme as they may be, are generally short-lived, and they quickly resume acting as if nothing out of the ordinary has happened.

Although Sociopaths have a “hair trigger” and readily initiate aggressive displays, their ensuing behavior is not out of control. On the contrary, when Sociopaths “blow their stack” it is as if they are having a temper tantrum; they know exactly what they are doing. Their aggressive displays are “cold;” they lack the intense emotional arousal experienced by others when they lose their temper.

It’s not unusual for Sociopaths to inflict serious physical or emotional damage on others, sometimes routinely, and yet refuse to acknowledge that they have a problem controlling their tempers. In most cases, they see their aggressive displays as natural responses to provocation.

Need for excitement

Sociopaths have an ongoing and excessive need for excitement—they long to live in the fast lane or “on the edge,” where the action is. In many cases the action involves breaking the rules.

Some Sociopaths use a wide variety of drugs as part of their general search for something new and exciting, and they often move from place to place and job to job searching for a fresh buzz. Many Sociopaths describe “doing crime” for excitement or thrills.

The flip side of this yearning for excitement is an inability to tolerate routine or monotony. Sociopaths are easily bored. You are not likely to find them engaged in occupations or activities that are dull, repetitive or that require intense concentration over long periods.

Lack of responsibility

Obligations and commitments mean nothing to Sociopaths. Their good intentions—”I’ll never cheat on you again“—are promises written on the wind.

Truly horrendous credit histories, for example, reveal the lightly taken debt, the shrugged-off loan, the empty pledge to contribute to a child’s support. The irresponsibility and unreliability of Sociopaths extend to every part of their lives. Their performance on the job is erratic, with frequent absences, misuse of company resources, violations of company policy, and general untrustworthiness. They do not honor formal or implied commitments to people, organizations or principles.

Indifference to the welfare of children—their own as well as those of a man or woman they happen to be living with at the time—is a common theme among Sociopaths. Sociopaths see children as an inconvenience. Typically, they leave children on their own for extended periods or in the care of unreliable sitters.

Sociopaths are frequently successful in talking their way out of trouble—”I’ve learned my lesson;” “You have my word that it won’t happen again;” “It was simply a big misunderstanding;” “Trust me.” They are almost as successful in convincing the criminal justice system of their good intentions and their trustworthiness. Although they frequently manage to obtain probation, a suspended sentence or early release from prison, they simply ignore the conditions imposed by the courts.

Early behavior problems

Most Sociopaths begin to exhibit serious behavioral problems at an early age. These might include persistent lying, cheating, theft, fire setting, truancy, class disruption, substance abuse, vandalism, violence, bullying, running away and precocious sexuality. Because many children exhibit some of these behaviors at one time or another, especially children raised in violent neighborhoods or in disrupted or abusive families, it is important to emphasize that the Sociopaths’s history of such behaviors is more extensive and serious than that of most others, even when compared with those of siblings and friends raised in similar settings.

Early cruelty to animals is usually a sign of serious emotional or behavioral problems. Cruelty to other children—including siblings—is often part of the young Sociopaths’s inability to experience the sort of empathy that checks normal people’s impulses to inflict pain, even when enraged.

Adult antisocial behavior

Sociopaths consider the rules and expectations of society inconvenient and unreasonable, impediments to their inclinations and wishes. They make their own rules, both as children and as adults.

Many of the antisocial acts of Sociopaths lead to criminal convictions. Even within prison populations Sociopaths stand out, largely because their antisocial and illegal activities are more varied and frequent than are those of other criminals.

Not all Sociopaths end up in jail. Many of the things they do escape detection or prosecution, or are on the “shady side of the law.” For them, antisocial behavior may consist of phony stock promotions, questionable business and professional practices, spouse or child abuse, and so forth. Many others do things that, although not illegal, are unethical, immoral or harmful to others: philandering, cheating on a spouse, financial or emotional neglect of family members, irresponsible use of company resources or funds, to name but a few. The problem with behaviors of this sort is that they are difficult to document and evaluate without the active cooperation of family, friends, acquaintances and business associates.

The complete picture

Sociopaths are not the only ones who lead socially deviant lifestyles. For example, many criminals have some of the characteristics described above, but because they are capable of feeling guilt, remorse, empathy and strong emotions, they are not considered Sociopaths. A diagnosis of psychopathy is made only when there is solid evidence that the individual matches the complete profile—that is, has most of the above symptoms.

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33 Responses to Sociopath Test | Sociopath Definition

  1. enda says:

    I thought that this article was very relevant and informative in relation to business partner/s

    Thank you
    enda

  2. rod rick says:

    As a retired psychiatric nurse I give this article full marks.

  3. money marketing says:

    Amazing issues here. I’m very glad to read your article. Thank you so much.

  4. Rose P says:

    Very interesting!! Summed it up pretty well & easy to understand. Thank you appreciate the info.

  5. Sally smith says:

    Now I know what is wrong with my sister

  6. Anonymous says:

    I have just come out of a relationship with a man who had 3 other relationships at the same time. Reading your article felt like I was reading about him. It's frightening.

  7. Concerned Aunt says:

    Raising my niece, this articule comes so close to describing her. A true battle of emotions.

  8. michele says:

    I have been with a full blown sociopath for 15 years it has finally aged me and killed my heart to near death.i am finally taking our one young child and leaving.everything in this article is 1000000% accurate..thank you for this….if i make it out…i will post back..thanks

  9. Ben says:

    Now im convinced i need help…….can one choose live this life? It is as they say impulsive and by the time the voices saying no dont do it, its already been done. Then i dont care cuz its already been done and i feel like since u cant change the past why bother. I dnt wanna be crazy.

  10. orin says:

    tx for the info. i always new somethin was wrong w me. scored 32 on ur test. ohh well lol. any medications that solve these problems

  11. james says:

    Fun way to thrive, anywho. ;)

  12. joyce says:

    I wish I had read that before I married my husband, now ex-husband. It was an exhausting, frightening relationship.

  13. K says:

    I have been in a relationship with a sociopath for around three years.. We recently broke up and I was devastated that I was so easily dropped by this man. We were on the way to getting married. I always knew something was wrong. But after reading this article I now know that he wasn’t capable of caring for me. It is heart-wrenching to say the least. Thank you for sharing this article it was very informative.

  14. Angelique says:

    Thank u so much my child’s father is a sociopath and after doing research I am certain this is his problem 3 years later i always knew something was up but now I know what is his problem I tried to. Help but all he did was put up resistance and I’m leaving him so I can move on with my life this experience has been draining financial emotional everything !!!!!! Thank u south for this information

  15. lila says:

    I am a sociopath and have learned how to live a Christian based life with an understanding control for my impulses. I am definitely capable of love and remorse, simply different ways of viewing them. All I have ever wanted was to happy, now I AM.

    • lila2 says:

      Is it really possible to reform a sociopath with Christ?

      • CassieAlex says:

        There are different types of sociopath, disempathetic ones often have a small group of people who they love dearly and wouldn’t want to upset, by for example murdering someone, as a result they are fairly benign.

        I’m not Christian, but on a purely selfish level, I think the threat of eternal torment (Hell) is enough to discourage people from most things.

  16. Jojo says:

    This article was like reading my husbands cv.i had put up with his behaviours for years.Until he got up and walled out, which was the final insult, I was heartbroken,that I’d tried to make it work&he was the one who left me.

  17. Jojo says:

    However he had gone he still continued to call me, to say he loved me&ask for money, he was still trying to keep that control over me even though he had gone, I just woke up one day and decided I never wanted contact again&I haven’t looked back&have finally got peace of mind&it’s wonderful

    • lila2 says:

      I know pattern and i know this heartache..and your right, once u decide ur done no matter what they say to u, it is an amazing freedom and peace of mind..u lose the pain of rejection and abandonment and gain the feeling of power and victory that ur finally done with him! Good for you..it is a road paved from hell to walk but heaven to reach once youve walked it!

  18. lila2 says:

    I cannot begin to explain my story of 3 years of hell with a Christian police officer sociopath or comprehend the emotional, mental, spiritual damage it has caused. It is incomprehensible to those who havent lived it or seen it…this article is dead on. You cannot reason or explain it to them or those around you. Just get away and recover from their emotional tortue. It’s pure hell but recovery is possible.

  19. Jarvis says:

    I feel as if this article might as well have been taken from my life, except that I understand my actions and how they affect others. I manipulate others to be happy so that I am happy. Selfish, no?

  20. Bobelynda says:

    WOW! This article itself is dead on when describing my ex who just one day left just as matter of factly as he said he loved me. No remorse or regret with his last words to me being “someone has to get hurt, I’m just sorry its you”. I was & still am devistated about the whole relationship. I think these kind of people should be marked with a black X where their heart is supposed to be. That way the preyed upon have some warning as to rather or not they choose to put themselves through the life draining roller coaster, self doubting, destructive ride or NOT. I have to sum it all up as I’m glad I REALIZED its not me its him and God is good so NO LOVE IS EVER WASTED & I am grateful for the lessons I learned and that its finally OVER. WHEW! Thanks for letting me share.

  21. L says:

    My personality matches every indicator listed here, although I have a tendency to lie low. I am, more than anything, an empty husk of a human being. I feel very little, and I care for very few people if only in a selfish way. I don’t have the mind to harm or kill anyone, not because I would feel guilt, but because I am too smart to let such actions interfere with my way of life. It would not benefit me. One thing I can say of being like this is that I am not happy; very few things make me so. I am empty, and it irritates me constantly, makes me always seek a way of stimulating my senses. I wonder if there is a way to end the search, something beyond temporary stimuli. I don’t like working hard for anything as a rule, and feeling emotion shouldn’t be on that list.

  22. L says:

    Also, might I say to the majority of women posting here about past lovers (pretty much everyone except K, possibly) that “sociopath” and “arrogant douche” are not synonymous terms. But I suppose if it helps you deal with your feelings of rejection and heartbreak, think whatever you want. Most real sociopaths are hard to read from observation; only the sociopaths themselves can know for certain that they are one. They come in different breeds, but all with the struggle or incapacity to feel, something only they can know.

    It’s an unhappy life. Be sympathetic.

  23. Kate says:

    I spent 26 years married to a man whose behaviour I was struggling to comprehend. He blamed me for things even if I wasn’t there; was totally full of his own achievements (his business card had every single letter on it you could imagine); was an expert in everything the minute he knew about it. Lied all the time and bled our bank accounts, yelling at me when I queried what he was spending the money on. The final straw came when a women he had been having an affair with rang me because he wouldn’t leave me for her. She then put in the post evidence that he had been on sex sites and was preying on much younger women (because 25 year old women find men in their 50s irresistable of course).

    I left that day and am slowly pulling my life back together, grateful that at 50 I can still get a life together.

  24. Bob says:

    I have a brother with many of these tendencies that I am trying to understand. This article was very helpful in that regard. It is too late to help him (as he is serving a life jail sentence), but this helps me to understand howhe got into the predicament he now finds himself in. Sad waste of a life.

  25. Laura says:

    My husband was a very sick on the heart transplant list, and a nurse took advantage . Almost talked him out of our marriage (32years) and money. Thank God it was all decovered in time. And he did receive his new heart. Doing great. But he feels like a real fool that this women took advantage of him. So sad. Bad people out there.

  26. Christy says:

    I thought I found my soulmate. It was to good to be true. I finally left after nearly 16 years of marriage. My spirit almost chipped away to nothing. His mother and first wife were both mentally ill. I know why now. Living with an explosive, raging, monster was a nightmare. He feigned stabbing me in the back or pushing me off a cruise liner constantly. It’s a joke he always said. He constantly swore and critized everyone for something – fat, stupid, hugly, useless. I can’t count how many times myself and our 15 year old son were called useless, failures, zeros usually words preceeded by a “F” word. The words that came out of his mouth were horrific. I would be in shock wondering what did I do to deserve that? When he pulled out the handgun in a drunken rage I called the police and that was the beginning of my recovery. Our son and I finally moved out. I had to save my son and myself from such a verbally abusive relationship. When I realized he fit the profile of a sociopath I was able to close the book on him ever getting
    counselling. After a year of intense counselling I’m finally regaining my self and spirit!

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  28. Jules says:

    This was eye opening & helpful! Both the content and the blogs. Even after getting out of a marriage with one of these and moving on & marrying someone wonderful my sociopath still 3 years later attacks us & my kids through the legal system and hurting/using my kids to hurt me. He drained me financially, emotionally and physically for 10 years. My advice to anyone wanting out is HAVE A PLAN. I was too ethical and loyal to plot my happy future without him and paid for it. But there IS light at the end of the tunnel thanks to Gods grace.