Ok I got the email about using webmaster tools and they look like something that would be helpful. Unfortunately I tried to sign up for it and it wont verify my site. I have no idea what I am doing wrong. I downloaded the html file to my desktop and then uploaded it to the html box on my index page, published and nothing. Same with the Meta verify. I copied and pasted it in the page properties of the index page under meta tag. Nothing. It can't find it.
I have no idea what to do with the DNS verify so i didn't try that one.